My baby has been kidnapped

Someone has kidnapped my sweet, kind, gentle, helpful little girl and replaced her with a monster in little girl clothes. She is driving me insane. Tantrum after tantrum and I don't understand why she keeps doing them because they don't work, I don't give in to her so why does she keep doing them? Last night she was soembarassing. We had a welcome BBQ at James school and she screamed for most of it we were about to throw her in the car and go home and she just stopped and suddenly want dinner and to play and do all the things that we had just spent the better part of an hour trying to get her to do. She threw one this morning because she didn't want to put a shirt on but still wanted to go to dancing??? You can't do both. Now she is whinging because she had to walk for 5 minutes when we went to register James for soccer. I just need to scream.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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